My parents have been divorced since I was around 2 and my mom has had custody of me and my brother. My dad lives 45 minutes away and I only get to see him every 2 weeks for the weekend. I have lived with my mom all my and now I think I want to live with my dad and see my mom like my dad sees me now. I really miss my dad and when I am at his house I feel happy and relaxed but when I am at my moms house I am usually sad or mad and I feel all stressed out and Im usually in a bad mood. I my mom and all I just miss my dad and my family with him....like my step mom and 2 step sisters. My parents say that they split up and moved away from each other becuz it was "best for me and my brother" but I think they were doing it and being selfish because its not right that I dont get to see my dad as much as I want to. I dont want to hurt my mom but I miss my dad too. Please if you have any advice or know what I should do please email me at SmileyGurl4eva@aol.com as soon as you can...Thanks!
Jessica
03-20-03 5:56 PM
Kayla...I am also in a similar situation. I live with my mom and I only get to see my father every other weekend. My dad is remarried and they have 2 kids together. I have been lucky to be blessed with an amazing stepmother and half brothers. I constantly fight with my mom and I also feel stressed when I am with her. I used to think it was because she was a bitch but I have come to realize that I am a teenager at the age where many fight with their mothers. I have always wanted to live with my dad as well. I also feel better when I am there...I feel warm and secure. Over the years though (my parents have been divorced 4 years), I have come to realize that its better living with my mother...I mean, the court made the decision for the better. I my dad tons and I still wish I saw him more. To my surprise, I found out that once a child reaches the age of 14, they have a say on where they'd like to live. I have remained living with my mother but I get to see my father more often now. I see him twice a week and everyone other weekend...its definitly an improvement! Speak to your parents...I am sure your mother will understand you. Thats what mothers are there for Good luck!
Jessica
03-20-03 5:57 PM
..sorry about the weird highlighting...that wasnt supposed to be there!
Rebecca
04-26-05 8:10 PM
I now what its like my parents got divorced when i was 2 mounths old. I have lived with my mom all my live. My dad is remarried and has 4 kids including me. He got married on the 23.
minette
12-29-05 2:31 AM
my parents have been divorced since i was 2 and my dad livesa in anothe state and i c him 1-2 times a yesr so it culd be worse i think u should talk to ur mum about visiting ur dad more often and maybe moving in with him, but dont yell i noe as soon as i yell my mum switches off, but if i had to choose id live with my mmum shes so , tell her that its maybe time for a change and if u could try out living with ur mum for a while, tell me how it goes gud luck minette xxx
ps i noe wat its like to miss my dad he has a partner and 2 oder kids and dont have tym 4 me nemore thats y im so glad to have my mum so i hate it when ppls say they hate their mum
02-24-08 5:51 PM
Awww. I'm so very sorry to hear that. What I suggest you do is keep an optomistic outlook and remember that good things happen to good people. I wish you good luck! -Emily
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my mom and all I just miss my dad and my family with 
my dad tons and I still wish I saw him more. To my surprise, I found out that once a child reaches the age of 14, they have a say on where they'd like to live. I have remained living with my mother but I get to see my father more often now. I see him twice a week and everyone other weekend...its definitly an improvement! Speak to your parents...I am sure your mother will understand you. Thats what mothers are there for 
Good luck!
, tell her that its maybe time for a change and if u could try out living with ur mum for a while, tell me how it goes gud luck minette xxx