My parents don't get along very well at all. I actually WANT them to get a divorce because I'm sick and tired of my mom. I hate her so much, and I keep hinting to my dad that they should get a divorce because our family life sucks and I just want my mom to get the hell out of my life right away. I want it to be just my dad and me because we get along great. If my mom was out of the picture, my life would be perfect. Any advice or comments, go right on ahead and post.
04-17-04 5:15 PM
Because not all people lived in a situation where the parents just hated each other. When I was young, my dad and my mom just kind of "fell out" of , they married young and didn't really each other. They never fought, they got along pretty well in fact. I my dad, he did some wrong things when I was younger, but he is still my dad. The fact that I haven't lived with my dad in 6 years just sucks for me. When you don't live in such a horrible condition, it's just your parents don't each other, it's just like being torn from one of your parents, one that you . I am sure I am confusing you, but it's hard to express. I was 9 when my parents divorced, so since I was younger, it was difficult for me. At times, I just remember my mom sitting Joel and I down on the couch and telling us about it, over and over again. I remember what she said, where I sat, how I knew it was coming...it just was sad, that I had to leave my dad and you know, never get to live with him or see him for long periods of times. Since he and my mom divorced and he is in the military, he can't just live near me and be a part of my life...
Kayleigh
05-17-04 4:47 PM
because it screws up families completely.
Micah
06-11-04 5:49 PM
yeah, my parents never really got into fights or anything like that...they just didn't each other anymore....and when you're life is great before they get a divorce thats when you're sad about it. in a situation like yours you'd want them to get away from each other. i dont really know what to tell you to do because you can't force them to divorce...maybe if you just talked to your dad about it..or better yet talk to your mom and dad together..?
Jessica
06-11-04 11:45 PM
My real parents used to fight all of the time, and once my dad nearly strangled my mom in front of me and my baby sis. It's much better now that they're divorced (especially cos he's a very bad, perverted man). But I feel like I am the product of a something that failed. It makes me feel like a failure. That is why divorce is so sad.
Toni
03-31-05 11:06 PM
I thought the same thing when I had a family. I didn't like my father, and I told them to get a divorce when I was mad, all the time. I thought things would be perfect with him gone. They did. And I regret it every day of my life. You don't take in to account lots of things. Like when they see other people. Seeing your parents kiss another person is so awfule...it just doesn't sound so bad until it's happened. Really, please, don't tell them to get a divorce.
Tabitha
06-06-05 4:13 PM
hi,i used to wish that 2,and know ,my parents are split up,i dont know if they will ever get a devorce or not and know my life suck major!
LiZ
07-13-05 10:25 PM
My parents separated before i was born and the divorce was final before my first birthday so i dont know how sad going through a divorce is. But it makes me really sad to think that ive never had the chance to have a normal family and that im stuck with my stepdad (i my mom but i hate him). I never see my real dad because i hate him too because when he found out my mom was pregnant with me, he started having an affair and said he didnt want to be married and he didnt want another baby (i have an older brother). It just makes me so sad that ill never have a father to look up to or anything.
Nikki Sixx
08-12-05 12:27 AM
Well...I hated my parent's divorce because my step-dad is a complete . He hates me, my older brothr, and my twin. But oh, he glorifies my step brothers. I hate all of them.
Nikki Sixx
08-12-05 12:30 AM
I also might add that when the found out about my drinking problem that I was getting with at the time he went ballistic and just completley went off on me. I hate him so much.
*tear*
Chris
11-17-05 4:48 PM
i was actually happy that my parents got divorced because everybody in my family always fought, my mom fought with my dad, my brother fought with my dad (some of those were really annoying) and my dad went to this seminar thing at the end of there marriage but it was to little to late but now whenever i go over to my dad's house he is actually now. it kind of scares me
Audrey
11-18-05 7:03 AM
Im glad my parents divorced because now I have a great stepdad which I wouldnt have had if my parents had still been married. My dad beat my mom but she was a b*tch and deserved it. She slaps me all the time, wh*re!!!! But also I have a wicked stepmom who I hate and I have to visit my dad and her for like half the year, which I also hate!! But my stepdad really understands me and sticks up for me so thats something good to come out of the divorce!!!!
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minette
12-29-05 2:41 AM
5 words
cus its a sad thing
thats alrite if u wont ur parents to b divorced im happy mine r but if u have lkived with both parents 15 years den 1 day they decide to get a divorce it juts hits u like a bus i was luky when myt rents divrced i was 2 but its hard if u were always a happy family now u have 2 houses, 2 familys, 2 beds 2 sets of parents, 2 sets of everything my frends parents r divorced n they live 2 streets away ool so they kids can walk to eachpothers houses haha
Shannon
06-19-06 11:47 AM
Yeah, I know a lot of pple are like, "it screws up families" which is true. But it really depends on your parents. One of my friends has never been the same since her parents divorced, but another one of my friends was so happy. It really depends on your parents
nina
02-02-07 1:37 PM
it's sad to see your family break up....everyone used to think my family was perfect, including me. it was so shocking when my rents split. the thing i am most sad about though is that 8 years later they STILL hate each other and don't get along. i wish they would just be friends for the sake of me and my brother!
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01-29-08 6:32 PM
The way I plan on saying this Candance is the process isn't . Divorce in general may not affect kids bad but once it gets indepth into the process, the harder it is which makes them despondant. However, everyone is affected differently and isn't meant as an insult to you but a general thought to keep in mind when you come across some depressing topics.
vanessa
02-16-09 6:57 PM
my parents got divorced when i was really young, so I'm used to it now. In my situation they just fell out of , so they are on good terms, and i get to see my dad pretty often though i live with my mom.
In my friends case, her parents fought so much it scared her, and her dad even beat down her brothers door when he was mad. Theyre divorce was really tough on her because her parents would fight about who she would be with when.
Either way, when your parents are divorced, its not what you'd consider "normal" eventhough its becoming pretty common. Some people blame themselves, some people just wish they could see the other parent more, others think they are being abandoned, some are glad, it always depends on the situation and how you handle it.
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, they married young and didn't really 
my mom but i hate him). I never see my real dad because i hate him too because when he found out my mom was pregnant with me, he started having an affair and said he didnt want to be married and he didnt want another baby (i have an older brother). It just makes me so sad that ill never have a father to look up to or anything.
with at the time he went ballistic and just completley went off on me. I hate him so much.
now. it kind of scares me
. Divorce in general may not affect kids bad but once it gets indepth into the process, the harder it is which makes them despondant. However, everyone is affected differently and isn't meant as an insult to you but a general thought to keep in mind when you come across some depressing topics.